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There are 3 major horizons we will explore in this work. Each has an important role to play in mapping the journey, and you may even find your unique path has additional milestones that keep you oriented and focused.

Sometimes what actually gets me moving isn’t noble at all. It’s the fantasy of running into an ex while looking ten years younger, the smug satisfaction of outlasting a rival at the gym, or the thought of proving wrong the person who once doubted me. These motivators may feel petty or even embarrassing, but they’re powerful. And neuroscience explains why.

What does it take to feel at home in a foreign land in your 20s? And what does it mean to come home again in your 30s—only to discover you’re a little foreign there, too?

I think about that principle often—but not just at the dinner table. When it comes to making big life changes, I suggest adopting a similar approach: 

What is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life? What is the truth you’ve been avoiding, the dream you’ve been shirking from? The part of yourself you’re not living fully? What do you need to know you’ve tried, given your ALL to, leaving behind everything you’ve got in the process?